Moods and cycles and changes

June 20th, 2006

I can’t believe it’s been a month since I’ve written! I keep meaning too, but keep finding other things that need to be done, or not in the mood, or stressed out about plans and changes. So what’s been going on? We were hoping for a move to a rental in Takapuna closer to the beach, but we had to find a renter for our place first, since we had a lease until October. The rental market is dead at the moment though, and we’ve had no bites. Plus the whole move has been overshadowed by other decisions. Sarah’s been here, which has been fun. We’ve done a couple caving trips, which I’ll write about next. I spent a number of evenings sorting through some old work files (which I also want to write about), we spent time planning a road trip for when Cindy’s sister visits, but the most stressful has been coming to terms with our decision to return to the States.

We told friends and family that we were planning to spend “a year or two” down here, one year so as not to upset family too much, two years allowing Max to finish High School down here without disrupting his schooling again. Cindy has been missing her family a lot, as well as the holiday seasons – Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas in the winter instead of in summer. Max has been doing fine academically in school, but has not been happy with the different school environment and classroom approaches, and has not really made any friends.

The decision to return could be easy, except that I really like it here, I was in no hurry to return to the same-old-same-old, and we put a lot of effort into coming down here in terms of time, money, stress, paperwork, moving, job change, etc., etc. Also, I have a year commitment to Navman (or repay moving expenses), and a year commitment to avoid paying double-taxes (have to be resident outside the US for a year to qualify for foreign tax credit).

So, we have struggled through many options, but have come up with a plan for the shorter term and the longer term. Coming here was to grab an opportunity to live and work abroad rather than just travel through a place on vacation, and an opportunity to get away from friends, family, Bainbridge, and America to gain perspective on it all, and clarify our thoughts and goals.

For years we’ve been planning our dream cottage, but didn’t know where to build it. Unhappy with the growth and changes on Bainbridge, but unwilling to move the kids out of school – it was almost easier to move 10,000 miles away rather than 10. One clarification we’ve achieved in coming here was where to go next, and that is Gig Harbor to be closer to Cindy’s family.

But we were going to focus on the experience here for the two years, so as not to disrupt Max’s schooling again. However, with his growing unhappiness and discontent, it seems the best option is to return to let him attend his Senior year back at Bainbridge High School.

This all came to a head over the past couple weeks, and our two year timetable became one year, with only a couple months left. Beyond the stress of coming to terms with this, there is suddenly a huge logistical load – figuring out transferring of school credits (since the school years don’t line up), moving, work, and a million little things like mail, phones, banks, insurance, cars, etc., etc.

The short term plan currently is to fly back up in the first week of September, which will allow Max to finish the classroom work for the year here, and complete his internal exams. We’d love to come a week earlier, both for Max to have a few days to settle in before starting school, and to do some activities over the Labor Day weekend, but to ensure transfer of credit he really needs to complete at least the internal exams. (The fourth term of school here for the upper level students is essentially study time for the external exams at the end of the year.) So this means Max will miss the first couple days of school, but so be it.

I will spend a month to get Cindy and Max get settled, to visit family and friends, and then return to New Zealand to finish out my year commitment. As the weather will be getting nicer at that point, I hope to do some type of South Island trek before heading back to what will then be winter in the Northern Hemisphere.

Longer term plan will be to buy or build a place in Gig Harbor, once Max is out of school. This gives us the school year to figure out if we keep the Bainbridge house as a rental or sell it, fix it up accordingly, and scope out options in Gig Harbor.

Tomorrow I buy plane tickets.

Okay, now it’s Cold.

May 16th, 2006

Last night cracked the 6 degree limit – 5.8 degrees Celsius, or about 42 degrees Fahrenheit. Brrrr! The norm here in Auckland is houses without insulation and single-pane glass, so let’s hope this isn’t typical!

Of course, it is also 4:45 AM – We’re off to pick up Sarah at the airport, coming down here for her “summer” vacation from college. Let’s hope she brings some of that warmer weather down with her.

We actually looked at another rental the other day – with heated floors! Might be a change-of-address in the offing!

Hello? Anybody out there?

May 9th, 2006

So, I’ve been writing this blog for friends and family back home. Spending my precious rainy weekends on it. Writing, proof-reading, re-writing, editing, polishing… (yeah, right!)

Does anyone actually read it? Leave some comments behind! Tell me how poorly I write! Tell me what drivel it all is!

Thorkill makes his debut…

May 7th, 2006

Max has been running a Dungeons and Dragons (“D&D”) campaign every couple weeks for the past few months with a group we met at Laserforce. He’s created an amazing world for the adventure, and now I get to have a small role in it – My character Thorkill is your typical dwarven fighter who has been digging mines in the mountains outside of Dis on the Second Level of Hell, until he got chased out by various devils and fire demons. So now, he’s looking for a few good fighters, a wizard, and perhaps a rogue or a druid, to help him get his mines back. And guess who stumbled into his house the other day, while they were escaping from some pit fiends recruiting for the Devil’s army in the Blood War against the Demons?

I haven’t played D&D for a few years (since college…), so we’ll see how it goes – wish Thorkill luck with his future damage rolls!

Local Wildlife

May 6th, 2006

When we first moved into the house, there was some crazy bird with a call that went on and on – no idea what it was. Then for the last month we’ve had a fantail (or piwakawaka) flitting around in the garden – it eats flying insects, so maybe we’ll have fewer mosquitos! Then in the past week, we’ve had a tui in the tree! (no, not the beer!) Tuis make a huge variety of sounds – quite astonishing!

We’ve seen hedgehogs a few times at night as Cindy has written about on her blog. Just the other day, as I arrived home from work, Cindy and Max were following one up our driveway! Very cute, toddling along on his little feet. We escorted him safely across the street, and off into the bushes. (They don’t move very fast, and are not frightened, so unfortunetly become roadkill far too easily.) They are not a native species, and have caused problems, but not nearly the devastation to native birds that other invasive species ( stoats, cats, possums) have done. Still cute though.

Tsunami!

May 6th, 2006

Luckily not, as it turned out! I woke up early the other day, and checked my email before heading off to work, and there’s a message from Kim Bottles on Bainbridge forwarding a CNN News Alert at about 5:00 AM our time: “– Tsunami warnings issued for Fiji and New Zealand after earthquake measuring a magnitude of about 8.0 shakes southern Pacific Ocean.” It was due to hit the east coast at Gisborne first, at around 6:21 AM our time. Luckily, the alert was cancelled at around 5:30 AM once they had additional information.

Many people here heard about the alert when friends and family abroad heard the news, and phoned New Zealand in the early morning hours. Many people in Gisborne fled for the hills. The scandal here is that the Ministry of Civil Defence failed to notify people in Gisborne about the alert! It is true that they were monitoring the situation, but from the time the alert was issued by the Pacific Tsunami Warning Center after the earthquake hit near Tonga at 3:27 AM our time until the alert was cancelled at 5:36 AM our time, there was a two hour period where they should probably have been reacting as if a tsunami was on the way. If it was due to hit at 6:21 AM, there would’ve been only about 40 minutes to alert the people of Gisborne to get to safety…

Apparently here in Auckland it probably wouldn’t have been too bad, because the Hauraki Gulf and Waitemata Harbour are relatively shallow, such that any large wave would break way out around Great Barrier Island. I have heard that they have sirens to alert the public here, and besides, we live near the top of a hill.

So, for now we can relax about tsunamis, and get back to worrying about the fact that Auckland is built on an active volcanic field…!

Updates: Japan trip, photos.

April 30th, 2006

Max’s writeup on his trip to Japan has been added to Max’s landmark month, and his photos are on Flickr here.

Also, I added several special categories to my photos on Flickr, for those who don’t want to slog through all the sets:
> Family, which has photos with us in them that family and friends might like to see.
> Favorites, which are some of my personal favorites from the sets.
> Architecture, which has some interesting architecture or architectural details. (Sorry, I get it from my father and grandfather!)

ANZAC Day

April 25th, 2006

Today is ANZAC day, which is New Zealand’s Memorial Day, originally honouring the members of the Australian and New Zealand Army Corps who fought and died during World War I landing at Gallipoli on the Turkish Aegean coast in 1915. The Auckland Museum has a very fine War Memorial, covering New Zealand’s involvement in various conflicts and peace keeping ventures, and honouring those who died in the service.

Max’s landmark month

April 25th, 2006

April has been a landmark month for Max!

First was his 17th birthday, which we celebrated doing a couple of our favorite things – going out to eat and watching a movie! We took Max out to a Japanese restaurant, where he got to practice a little bit before his trip to Japan, and then went and saw Sione’s Wedding. And a few gifts of course! When Sarah saw his birthday pictures, she summed it up by saying how grown-up Max was looking. And indeed, he’s matured in many ways over the past year. We are very proud of him!

Then, despite the challenges of moving to a new country and new school, Max got straight A’s in his first term at Westlake Boys High School and glowing feedback from all of his teachers. And this is doing the Cambridge (i.e., Honors) track! I continue to be very proud of the fact that both of my children are smarter than I am!

To cap off the month, Max had the opportunity to go on a two-week exchange program to Japan during Fall break (yes, it’s our Fall break), which he has just returned from. There was a group of 16 boys from school, along with two teachers. They travelled to Ichinomiya, Hiroshima, Kyoto, Nara, Tokyo, and Isesaki. They visited the Toyota car factory and museum, Hiroshima Peace Park and musuem, temples in Kyoto and Nara, the Imperial Palace and shopping in Tokyo. They stayed with host families in Ichinomiya and Isesaki, visiting the local schools. During the welcoming ceremonies, the boys sang the New Zealand National Anthem, the Westlake school song, and performed the school Haka. Since Max was new to New Zealand and Westlake, he didn’t know any of these, but he did a great job of learning them before the trip.

Max’s pictures are on flickr here, and follows is his guest blog entry about the trip:

“Japan is a unique place, and twice I have had the pleasure of traveling there. I traveled with a group of students from my school down here in New Zealand along with one of the Japanese teachers, Mr. Renau, and Mr. Rivers, the deputy headmaster. We had a long trip onboard a 747 equipped with on-demand entertainment systems. I watched movies such as Aeon Flux, As Rumor Has It, and Finding Nemo. After taking a second three-hour flight from Tokyo to Narita we met the families who would be hosting us for the next four days. They made me feel really comfortable, they even left a cooler of water in my room. They enjoyed the gifts I gave them, and they served a really delicious cherry blossom cake that night.
The next day I went to a neat art museum for the pieces of Setsuko Migishi. She had painted many beautiful suggestive paintings of Europe. Later that day my host family took me shopping at a large shopping center called Jusco. They bought me three really nice ties along with a cute totoro doll. I felt a little bad because they had spent a little more money than I had, but there wasn’t much I could do about it. Later we saw a movie called Firewall. It wasn’t a bad movie, and the fact that it was in English made it quite a bit more enjoyable for me. That evening, we watched Howl’s Moving Castle in Japanese. I really enjoyed it, but understood fairly little.

The next day I got back together with the group and we went to the Toyota car factory. It was really neat to see how the cars were assembled, but my favorite part was the machine room. Here, close to fifty robotic arms would all come down at once on a small line of cars causing sparks to fly everywhere. However the Toyota exhibition hall was awesome, there were many really neat futuristic vehicles. Some of the one-person vehicles could easily make segways a thing of the past. That night my host family set up a hot plate and we had various sautéed dishes including yakitori.

The next day we were supposed to go to an amusement park, but because of the rain, we went instead to an aquarium. One of the coolest fish there wasn’t even real. In a really dark part of the aquarium there was a projection of a deep-sea fish in a fake tank. It looked really cool, and it took me a few moments before I reached into the hollow in the wall discovering the illusion. That night the Ichinomiya high school gave us a welcome ceremony, including koto playing (a Japanese harp), geisha dancing, several forms of martial arts, and taiko drumming. I really enjoyed the taiko drumming, someday I want to go back to Japan and study it. We also performed our school Haka, and luckily, we did it pretty well. Afterwards I went home with my host family, and we watched one of my favorite movies, Laputa.

My final full day in Ichinomiya got off to an interesting start. This day we were supposed to teach students our Haka, originally we would be teaching this during a class, but when we arrived at the school we found out that we would only have about fifteen minutes. Then, once we had introduced ourselves to the students, we discovered that we would be teaching them right there in the gym, and that we would only have about ten minutes. We did our best, but the girls kept giggling. Afterwards we played a few English games with a class and ate lunch with them. My host family ordered Lunch boxes for dinner, I didn’t care much for the desert, but it was very good over all. By the time I went to bed that night, my host family had given me an umbrella, Twilight Samurai the movie, an Iaido book (Japanese sword), and the three ties and totoro doll they had bought me at Jusco. By the time I got on the train the next day with yet more gifts in my bag, I was feeling really bad for having gotten them so little (little did I know that the day I returned from Japan, a package would arrive from them containing an origami book and paper along with some totoro napkins). My host mother cried as I waved goodbye from the departing shinkansen. The first part of my trip to Japan had come to an emotional end.

After checking into a capsule hotel in Hiroshima (they were actual quite comfortable) we visited the Hiroshima peace park. Being the only person in my group from America, I felt really self-conscious. By the time we left I was feeling pretty depressed, though it seemed that I was the only one. We went shopping later that day, I found a nice wax stamp (for letters) and another student on the trip bought a digital camera. That night I discovered that I had put my notes on the presentation I was supposed to do the next day in a bag that I had sent ahead to Isesaki. Luckily, I was able to recall most of it and felt reasonably prepared for the following morning. The next day we took the train to Himeji and at Himeji Castle I gave my little speech. It was a really beautiful castle, and I was ecstatic that the cherry blossoms, which normally fell a week earlier, had hung around. This gave me a wonderful chance to take pictures of Himeji framed in beautiful cherry trees.

We left Himeji after a brief lunch destined for Kyoto. After checking into a nice Ryokan, we took a bus to Ginkakuji (the silver temple). The sand formations there were incredible; there was a cone of sand as tall as a person! Unfortunately the temple was closing and we didn’t have much time there. We took a bus to Kiyomizudera, a huge temple in Kyoto to watch the sunset, however, due to the overcast sky, we instead occupied ourselves enjoying the fine architecture the buildings. It was here that another student on the trip spent five thousand yen on a fake katana. The next day, we visited Kinkakuji (the golden temple), which was similar to the silver temple, but brighter (except for the fact that it was raining that day). Afterwards we took a quick train to Nara and saw the imperial palace. This was absolutely gigantic, a huge structure beyond the scale of any other wooden building. Even the wooden statues inside were beyond anything I had ever imagined. We returned to Kyoto and spent the night in the ryokan.

After that we went to Tokyo and visited the fashion districts. This was interesting, but not my sort of thing. Then we did some shopping in places like Akihabara and many people were going to buy i-pods and PSPs because they had been told that they could bargain, decided against it when they found vendors solidly against bargaining. We were going to see sumo wrestling, but they finished before we got to the ring and so we just got to watch them sweeping up afterwards. While in Tokyo we went to a really cool amusement park and I rode this huge rollercoaster. We also explored Tokyo harbor and saw this neat building constructed around a large multi-storey sphere in the middle. Then we went to Isesaki and met our second host families. We spent two days going to lessons, which turned out being really boring, largely because I understood almost none of it. We also went to a doll making factory and glass making factory one day. It was really cool to visit these places, and I bought a neat glass horse with flakes of silver. While on this expedition, we also got a chance to make soba, since we had to eat this in addition to our packed lunches, I had trouble stomaching it all and ended up feeling a little sick that evening. The next day we spent a day on a bus bound for Tokyo and then finally caught a plane back home.”

Roadtrip to the Far North

April 21st, 2006

This past weekend was a long weekend here (holidays for both Good Friday and Easter on Monday), so Cindy and I decided to do a road trip and explore Northland. (Max is off to Japan on a two-week school exchange trip.) Photos from the trip are here.

We left Friday morning heading North. We decided to do the loop clockwise, ending up in the most popular spot, the Bay of Islands, at the end of the holiday weekend when the crowds would be heading back to Auckland.

First stop was the wonderful Kauri Museum in Matakohe – rather than a short stop, we ended up spending several hours wandering through all the rooms, and the magnificent displays about the kauri, the logging history, the kauri gum industry, logging tools and machinery, many beautiful items made from kauri, and a full-size slice of a kauri tree dominating the main hall.

After the museum, we headed on to Dargaville, and out to Baylys Beach for a late afternoon walk (dodging the cars and dirt bikes allowed on the beach there), then back to Dargaville to spend the night.

Saturday we went up and had our breakfast on the lawn of the Dargaville Museum, with a beautiful view overlooking the town and Wairoa river valley. The masts of the Greenpeace ship Rainbow Warrior are also here as a memorial. (The French blew it up in Auckland Harbor in 1985, to prevent it from protesting French nuclear testing in the Pacific, killing one crewmember in the process.)

Then we drove up what is known as The Kauri Coast, driving through the Waipoua Forest, stopping to see the two largest living kauri trees, “Father of the Forest” Te Matua Ngahere and “Lord of the Forest” Tane Mahuta. Truly magnificent trees – they remind me of the Swiss Family Robinson treehouse tree, which was big enough to have a spiral stair up inside the trunk! It was great to walk through some remaining kauri forest, to see these trees “in the wild”.

Lunch was overlooking Hokianga Harbour, with giant sand dunes at the harbour entrance. Then a ferry from Rawene, and on to Ahipara. We stayed right on the water, and had a wonderful sunset walk on the beach.

Sunday we did a bus tour of the Aupouri Peninsula to Cape Reinga as a way to travel along the Ninety Mile Beach highway (not recommended for personal autos, or covered by insurance). It turned out to be a fantastic choice, as we had a wonderful driver, went to some places we otherwise wouldn’t have, and I got to relax and enjoy the ride rather than driving. We went with Sand Safaris out of Kaitaia. Our driver Senny was great, saying he’d been out of work and at the pub all night, and this was his first day driving the bus (15 years actually), and that the roadkill along the way would be good for lunch! Being local Maori, he was able to give us lots of interesting information about the area, about Maori legends, and also sang Maori songs for us along the way.

We stopped by Ancient Kauri Kingdom, which carried lots of kauri products, and actually did have a spiral staircase inside a kauri log to their upstairs! (Kauri products are all made from swamp kauri – downed trees from ancient forests recovered from bogs and farmland – or from trees that have succumbed to lightning or disease.) Next was Gumdiggers Park – kauri gum had various uses, and was dug out from the same buried ancient forests. The park is an old gum field, that is riddled with the pits dug long ago, and re-created digger’s huts. Many of the diggers were immigrants from Dalmatia (part of modern-day Croatia), and to this day Dalmation is spoken in Northland along with Maori and English.

Then a brief stop at Rarawa Beach to see the incredibly pure white silica sand, which had been harvested to make glass until it was feared it would all disappear!

Then on to Cape Reinga (Te Rerenga Wairua) and its lighthouse, (almost) the furthest northern point of New Zealand, where the Tasman and Pacific come together. It was a beautiful day, and the meeting of the seas was fairly calm, but can crash together with large waves. Next was a nice lunch stop at nearby Tapotupotu Bay, then out to the giant sand dunes and the beach. We stopped for a chance to toboggan down the giant dunes, then out to the top end of Ninety Mile Beach (Te Oneroa A Tohe) – actually more like 90-kilometre beach. We blasted down the beach, all the way back, with just a photo stop along the way!

As it was fairly late afternoon, we just stayed in Kaitaia that evening. Monday morning we went out to the Karikari Peninsula to check out the beautiful double-bay beach at Matai Bay. We had a nice walk along the beach, getting caught in a rain shower just before returning to the car. Then through the little town of Whatuwhiwhi (that’s pronounced “fah-too-fee-fee”, by the way), and on to Mangonui, where we had lunch at the “World Famous” fish-n-chips shop there – and yes, it was very good!

We arrived in the Bay of Islands area, driving through Kerikeri on our way to Paihia, thinking we would go back there to find a place for the night. We toured the Waitangi Treaty Grounds, where the Treaty of Waitangi was signed between the Maori chiefs and the Crown in 1840, which is New Zealand’s founding government document.

After the Treaty Grounds, we did a woods walk in the late afternoon, enjoying the varied calls of the tuis. By the time we got back, it was late enough so that we just found a place in Paihia, and enjoyed walking around the town that evening.

Paihia is a tourist town right on the water, with lots of motels, resturaunts, and shops, and is the hub of Bay of Island activities, including all kinds of water activities, tours of the islands in the bay, and ferries to the historic town of Russell. Luckily we came at the end of the holiday weekend, so the population had probably dropped by a factor of ten, but still plenty of people around. Unfortunately, it was absolutely pouring down rain, so our interest in doing any of these activities was, shall we say, dampened! Instead, we enjoyed lingering in a cafe, then going ahead and heading out of town, south back towards Auckland.

Along the way we stopped to see “Hundertwasser’s Loo” in Kawakawa, which are pretty cool public toilets in town designed by, you guessed it, Hundertwasser! Then on to Whangarei, where Cindy had a couple craft/hobby shops to check out. For some reason, the traffic in town here was terrible! I think with the school holiday, everyone in Northland had come to Whangarei to go shopping! We went out of town a little ways to check out Abbey Caves, but they were not walk-in caves – I’ll have to go back with a caving group sometime to check them out. Also in Whangarei was the Margie Maddren Fernery and Stanley John Snow Conservatory, which has a wonderful display of native ferns, along with a couple greenhouses, one with exotics and one with cacti.

Finally, a couple hours more, and we were back home! As always, nice to go, and nice to come home. This was like the “Europe in 2 weeks” type of trip, where now I know where I’d like to go back and spend more time.

Many thanks to Kim and Susan for the tips on places to go in Northland, and for the Northland map!